Respect…


It’s not just Aretha Franklin’s favourite word! It’s about valuing your partner’s opinions, feelings, and boundaries. Show appreciation and kindness even when you disagree. A little respect goes a long way in making your partner feel cherished. This is one of those key qualities of a relationship that can turn good into great. So, keep the eye-rolling to a minimum and the compliments flowing!  How to practice it: Listen without interrupting and acknowledge your partner’s viewpoints. Show appreciation through words and actions. Avoid belittling or dismissive language, even in heated moments.  Also, in a bedroom situation – use Wendy Maltz’s Model for Health Sex – CERTS – the R stands for RESPECT.  Ask yourself – is what I am being asked to do respectful to me? Do I have a positive regard for myself and for my partner? Do I feel respected by my partner? Do I feel supportive of my partner and supported by my partner?  (Source: www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/qualities-of-successful-relationships)  #relationshipsneedrespect #respect #ArethaFranklin